We work with people to help them find a meaningful direction of
life that learns from adversity and leads to the development of a
clear sense of direction for their lives. They:
learn new ways to manage pain.
learn to manage stress.
recover
self-esteem.
heal old wounds of abuse and abandonment.
heal relationships.
develop responsibility and commitment.
develop healthy attitudes toward self, others and nature.
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They find themselves in the company of others who want to
make any of these changes and they discover that they all seek
the same things, hope, love, and acceptance.
They find a new, healing focus for their lives.
They take their power back from people, places and things
that took the power in the first place.
We use resources that have empowered human beings for
thousands of years, put into modern words and supporting
actions, encouraged and supported by a group of people who have
come together for this express purpose. The key resource we all
have is the ability to choose our attitudes for any given
situation. This applies to all situations, which explains why
such varied people with many different kinds of challenges find
help in a HOPE Group.
It is not "religious," but it has something all religions
certainly have in common-- spirituality. It recognizes that we
are spiritual beings called souls who are immersed in the human
experience. It honors the spiritual journey of each individual
soul. (Go to our Core Philosophy to find out more.)
At the beginning of each two hour meeting, we sit in a
circle, say "Hello" to newcomers, and introduce
ourselves. We welcome newcomers without imposing any need to
hear their reason for coming to the HOPE Group meeting. We
commonly welcome newcomers with brief statements of why we came
to a HOPE Group in the first place and why we come back (often
they are different, suggesting the growth that a HOPE Group
environment nurtures).
We make sure that everyone has a copy of the Golden Book
that contains the HOPE Group
Opening, the Principles of Attitudinal Healing, and
the HOPE Group
Guidelines. They are laminated, folded, single sheets of
gold-colored paper that say who we are, why we're here, and how
we're going to get what we came for; choose the success-full
attitudes on which we choose to build these ideas; and a set of
agreements as to how we're going to get along for the meeting. We jointly read the three pieces; share thoughts,
memories, feelings; ask HOPE questions; and allow silence,
for it can be more powerful than words.
With 30 minutes to go, we may choose to relax to a guided relaxation
or imagery. At
closing, we stand in a circle holding hands, with the right hand
up and the left hand down. (It prevents big men from
dominating small women!) Still in the circle, we recite the Prayer for
Serenity. Hugs are permitted, but not insisted upon; for some
people they are too intimate. The two hours will have flown by.
Volunteer, free-standing HOPE Groups charge no fixed fees;
rather, they accept voluntary
contributions of all sizes based on the principle, "value given for value received"
to support the HOPE-trained group guide, the place of
meeting, and HOPE, the organization.
Professional HOPE Groups that are part of a clinical service
of a healthcare office or institution charge fees for that
service according to the policies of that office or
organization. Part of those fees pay for HOPE's ongoing support
of that service. These groups provide patients and practitioners
the support they all need for the most beneficial health care in
these too-busy, crowded times.
She or he is a person who wants to work with people who,
like her or him, are working to solve problems in life that
lead to a greater understanding of life itself.
S-he is a person who believes in the inherent ability of
each one of us to heal in his or her own way.
S-he is a person who is willing to let go of her-his
attachments to any special outcome.
S-he is a person who is willing to accept and appreciate
the concept that mind, emotions, body and spirit are all real
and in relationship in each one of us, and that health comes
from the nurturing and balancing of all of these components.
S-he believes in the power of the mind to effect great
changes, and is willing to work with other minds to develop
the possibility for change in each one.