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What is a HOPE Group? the
in-depth description ©
2001, HOPE and Ken Hamilton, MD
A HOPE Group can be
started anywhere. People who want to do something about
their futures can be found in schools, hospitals,
businesses, prisons, churches, and government. In
virtually every group there are potential guides. We seek
the intuitive, caring, concerned and thoughtful listener
to whom others turn because s-he believes in them. This
person must trust that the present and the future can make
sense, and be willing to openly and confidently share that
belief with others.
HOPE's work grew out of Ken Hamilton’s study of the
experience of the entrepreneur and radio personality, Earl
Nightingale. When he was twelve years old, Earl began a
lifetime study of the essence of success. He and Lloyd
Victor Conant founded the Nightingale-Conant Corporation
in 1960 to disseminate this knowledge. Hamilton began his
study of Earl’s work in 1975. He saw that these principles
of success could benefit his surgical patients. From the
outset, they were accepted and applied with wonderful
effects. He knows that they contributed greatly to his
successful surgical practise.
By the mid 1980’s, the psychological effects of this
work led Hamilton to study counseling. He worked with a
gifted psychiatrist, Barry Wood, MD. Through his tutor’s
experience with alcoholism and cancer, he was introduced
to Twelve-Step group work and the work of Bernie Siegel,
MD. Siegel had developed very successful support groups in
New Haven, CT, and had written an excellent book about
them called, Love, Medicine and Miracles. Ken read this
book and met Bernie at one of his Psychology of Illness
and Art of Healing workshops.
Siegel spoke at length about his support groups, which
called themselves Exceptional Cancer Patients groups. He
disliked having to call people "patients" or label them
with "cancer". He stated that he had wished to call the groups
“HOPE” groups, but no one could figure out a good acronym
for the letters. He believed that he was not to use the
word unless he could develop the acronym. His belief was a
gift, as we shall see.
One month after meeting Siegel, Hamilton encountered
the “Attitudinal Healing” work of Jerry Jampolsky MD at
another workshop and through reading Jerry’s Love is
Letting Go of Fear. All of these experiences led Ken to
see the potential for a support group in his own surgical
practise, and a small, enthusiastic group of people joined
him on February 12, 1987. They chose to call the group a
HOPE Group, and, in response to Siegel’s challenge,
created the acronym, Healing Of Persons Exceptional,
at its second meeting! HOPE’s
ideas have caught on, and now the people have come who
will help develop and disseminate them.
We in HOPE have come to know that this unique work
can be taught and it must be taught. Certain people who
work in the field of education, counseling and health have
joined HOPE to develop the methods of teaching these
skills to others. Those we teach will then become guides
for HOPE groups of their own. We have developed and
implemented an effective training program. We plan to have
the program accredited by one of our Maine colleges.
We believe that the majority of humans can come to the
realization that all things can make sense. This is our
simple message. It is complete with extremely effective
methods for reaching its understanding. The methods have
withstood the test of centuries of human experience, and
they are summarized by Earl Nightingale in a gift that he
gave to all those who knew him. He said: “I have three
things for your success; a Formula, a Gold Mine, and a
Word. The Formula is, ‘You become what you think about.’
The Gold Mine is ‘The Mind’, and the Word is ‘Attitude’.”
HOPE says that to replace fear with hope is the
fundamental attitudinal shift that leads to health, which
is basic to all of us… a universal birthright. This basic
shift in our consciousness transforms us. HOPE groups
facilitate the shift and the transformation. The
experience is profound, healthy, happy, and joyful for all
those who participate in HOPE’s group meetings.
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