What is a
HOPE Group?
- It's where you find out who you really are.
- It's a "small
group" of people dealing with a serious personal
issue
who come together to tell their stories and work out meaningful solutions to their
problems in a safe, nurturing context.
We have found that these issues manifest in a myriad of
ways: cancer, depression, chronic pain, grief and loss,
trauma and PTSD, heart disease, addiction (complementing 12-step
groups) AIDS, . A group may consist of one condition or several...
the work is remarkably similar.
- HOPE Groups are open, on-going, and confidential. They meet under the
guidance of a HOPE-trained individual who knows how to
maintain the safety and integrity of the group.
For individuals who would want to convene their own
private, invitational Empowerment HOPE groups for 4-6
participants and who may not have a local HOPE group, we
offer experience and support and a packet of materials
(under development) that make this possible. HOPE's unique
method of context-building makes this self-help group
possible. If you are interested in convening such a HOPE
group.
Contact us.
For medical practices and hospital services that wish to
incorporate HOPE practices into clinical visit meetings with
their patients, we offer training and support at levels
appropriate to the needs of the practice or service, ranging
from introducing the principles of HOPE listening,
questioning, reflecting and affirming, to certified,
supported HOPE Guide trainings of professionals (RN, NP, PA,
DO, MD) to guide these meetings in the life- and health-
context that are the essence of HOPE's twenty years'
experience with over 5000 HOPE Group meetings.
Contact us.
We have published a "White Paper" that
points out the difference between HOPE work and licensed,
regulated therapeutic practices on the one hand and
certified coaching practices on the other. It also
points out important differences between HOPE groups and
support groups. We invite your comments about this
work, so please feel free to
contact us.
Click here to
read the White Paper
We help people with their therapies, their plans, their
hopes…their lives. People in HOPE groups simply feel
better. They find friends and support in their groups and help
each other from day to day.
We encourage and teach people to focus on what they would
like to have happen in their lives, rather than what is wrong
with them. If a person wants to be rid of their cancer, we ask
them what they would be doing in that event, and encourage
them to start doing that--now.
We know the denial is more fragile than acceptance and
confrontation--and we honor both ways of looking at our
suffering. We are not so much interested in what caused any
problem as in the attitudes and behaviors that help get past
it. We introduce people to those attitudes that have helped
other humans throughout the ages. In this way the problems
themselves become the keys to their solutions. When
HOPE'rs do this work, they get clear on the meaning in
their lives. They feel better and become healthier.
Whether someone is facing the hellfire of cancer or AIDS,
or the black hole of depression or chronic pain, they benefit
from the salutary effect of a HOPE group. In its
fourteen-year existence, HOPE has grown from one group of
people challenged by cancer to a network of groups of people
experiencing a wide range of challenges:
- Cancer and other tumors
- Grief and loss
- Trauma and PTSD
- Chronic Fatigue syndrome (CFIDS)
- Autoimmune diseases
- HIV/AIDS
- Depression, with or without bipolar
- Multiple Sclerosis (MS)
- Loss of self-esteem
- "Worried and well"
- Diabetes
- Recovery from alcoholism and other drug abuse
- Chronic hepatitis, especially Hepatitis C
- Anxiety/panic attacks
- Abuse issues
- Reflex Sympathetic Dystrophy (RSDS)
HOPE groups nurture hope--the key to the
discovery of meaning, value and purpose in life. Hope
promises possibility thereby displacing fear and opening the door to
love--agape, caritas, loving kindness. This attitudinal shift comes out of Earl Nightingale's
historical study of human success and Dr. Gerald Jampolsky's
study of the contemporary spiritual work called A Course in
Miracles. It includes the powerful work of many others
including Bernie Siegel, MD, Dennis Waitley, Ph.D., Wayne
Dyer, Ph.D., Larry LeShan, Ph.D., and Joan Borysenko, Ph.D.
HOPE Guides are
trained, caring people who are conscious of their own healing work.
These fine persons as a group with a senior guide to share
their experiences. HOPE "guides" are not expected to "fix"
or "treat" others. If a person in their group needs "therapy",
the guide encourages that person to seek professional help.
HOPE guides are not coaches, either, for they help people
find the resources from their past to build a meaningful
present, upon which they can see into a meaningful future. The
focus is on the present, how people got to it, what gives it meaning,
and what can create a more meaningful future.
We do not have any established fees for participating in an
open, volunteer HOPE
group. With this freedom, HOPE guides are free to set an
appropriate fee schedule that fits the means and circumstances
of the people they are working with. HOPE is a volunteer, 501(c)(3) not-for-profit
organization, and it accepts tax-deductible contributions to help with
its outreach and growth as individual circumstances allow. We
believe that people like to make contributions that
acknowledge the value of what they have received. Each group
is responsible for all meeting space costs and any
compensation to its guide for time and mileage. In
this way each group acknowledges its right to support its guide and the
meeting place with its contributions.
The HOPE Center and its founder, Dr. Ken Hamilton, are
open to the comments and suggestions of our group
participants, their families, and to all members of the Circle
of Friends of HOPE
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