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Physicianship
III:
HOPE and the Prevention and Relief of Suffering
by Ken
Hamilton, MD ~ Winter 2007 Edition
“You have
cancer” he said
His touch was soft, his eyes were kind
“But that can’t be,” I said,
“I eat good food and exercise.”
Sure hands
removed the unknown mass.
The pain was brief, it brought relief.
To know the truth and what must come;
The journey was begun.
They talked
the talk, I walked the walk;
I didn’t plan to die right then.
“Do what they say, it’s tough I know,
But you are strong and there is H.O.P.E.”
“God”, I
said, “I can’t go on, it’s much too hard.”
“But you have gifts to give,” He said.
I had a choice, and so do you—
To sing the song, to live, to give.
Give love
and listen well; then offer hope
To those about to walk their path;
So she may know that life, though not the same,
He promises will be more sweet. And so it is.
—Jean Libbey
Jean's
experience with her cancer could have been one of suffering had
her surgeon not touched this forthright and courageous woman
with soft hands and looked at her with kind eyes as named the
disease of the "unknown mass." Subsequently, she goes on to face
the tough journey of surgery and chemotherapy with her strength
and with HOPE… and, in spite of total-body pain and nausea, she
more than endured—more than survived—she thrived.
Is pain
suffering? Simply put, no. We are well-equipped to deal with
pain, depression, and nausea... our endorphins are more powerful
than heroin... our serotonin is more powerful than Prozac… our
anti-nauseant neurotransmitters are more powerful than Zofran.
We turn them on at will to deal with the unbearable. We turn
them off in the face of abandonment.
Our minds
readily project into the unknown. Imagination, with or without
past experience, has the ability to leap into that mystery of
the future and create scenes teeming with suffering. To be able
to pull oneself out of such images can be a Herculean task.
However, the presence of a compassionate other can ease the
magnitude of that task. The hands and eyes of Jean's surgeon
admirably filled that role... thus preventing her from
suffering.
Eric J.
Cassel begins the preface to the first edition of his profound
work, The Nature of Suffering and the Goals of Medicine
(New York; Oxford, 1991) with "The test of a system of medicine
should be its adequacy in the face of suffering... modern
medicine fails that test." Interestingly, the Hippocratic Oath
contains no reference to the alleviation or prevention of
suffering, neither in its original version nor in subsequent
modern versions. However, physicians have, for centuries,
performed as the one portrayed in Sir Luke Fildes' famous
painting, The Doctor, 1891, showing a physician at the
side of a seriously ill child. The role of compassionate medical
presence in the relief of suffering has been with us for ages,
but the more recent goals of medicine have been to become a
science, and compassion cannot be subjected to the rules of
science: measurement, reproduction, and prediction. Medicine is
still as much an art as it is a science, and it has come to
recognize that what science cannot deal with can be as important
as the science, itself.
One of the
immeasurable conundrums for science is hope. To Vaclav Havel,
hope was "the certainty that things can make sense, regardless
of how they work out." To Viktor Frankl, hope was one of two
attitudes (love was the other) common to all survivors of
Auschwitz . For him, hope was intimately involved with finding
meaning in life. Indeed, it was an essential component of his
"logotherapy" which he had developed in 1932, six years before
the Nazi Anschluss.
Throughout
Cassel’s book one finds the importance of seeing individual
persons as living systems that cannot be analyzed
scientifically. The immediate problem for medicine in the face
of the tight time constraints of "managed care" is that working
with persons takes time, of which those constraints do
not permit. It is not enough that a physician be able to make a
decision of what is wrong, what caused it, what can be used to
treat it and what reasonable predictions can be made regarding
the treatment and its effects; for to do so denies the
interaction between these two persons... and a sense of
abandonment develops. The physician’s responsibilities include
advising the patient to get their affairs in order and get on
with their life, and, last but not least, promising the patient
of doing everything in his or her power to help the patient get
on with that life. This noble promise contains rich and
beautiful implications for healing, which is the healer’s
purpose.
Such a
promise implies a surrender to the needs of the patient. That
promise certainly goes back 2300 years to Ruth, recently
widowed, who promised her (also) widowed mother-in-law, Naomi,
"Whither thou goest, I go with thee." With those words, Naomi's
suffering ends... and so does Ruth's.
The mission
of HOPE, to help humans find meaning, value, and purpose, is
realized as the participants and guide of a HOPE Group give
themselves permission to be that present to each other and
themselves. Such a group presence makes it possible for
perceptions of abandonment to fade away, alleviating thereby
suffering already present and suffering yet to come.
Today’s
physician must deal with both the “absolutes” of science and the
“particulars” of the one-of-a-kind work of art person who is to
benefit from the science. The physician is both professional and
healer. Both s-he and the patient need those two services. They
both need the power of hope and HOPE to integrate the two.
Do you have a story or anecdote you would like to share with
the readers of Ripples? Please send it to Ken at HOPE PO Box
276, S. Paris, ME 04281.
We would love to have your HOPE story for Ripples! Please
send it to the HOPE office, PO Box 276, South Paris, ME 04281
or email it to hope-at-hopehealing.org. If you don't think you are a writer,
record it onto a tape and send that to the office. The editor will
transcribe and edit it for you!
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